dealing w/ the x

got a reply note from her today. I had sent her a postcard that I started writing before I got her prior mailing, and completed writing afterward. To me it read like tarentino movie because I totally started with one sentiment and had to change it once she'd updated me to the situation of things.
Turns out her boy is a SD liver, which is exactly what she'd hoped I'd become in the past. So she's got the weekend warrior she wanted. Some people can live with that I guess.
My postcard in the end wound up expressing a desire for her to understand that I still care and would hope that I had not ruined an opportunity to keep in touch. "I don't know if that was a formal request to be friends or not, but if it was being friends is cool with me. ", was the reply. I'm not exactly sure what that means since we were writing back and forth and I don't see how people that aren't friends would do that unless we were still riding relationship coattails. Though to me that's impossible when you've proclaimed to move on to the next. For a psych major, some of those things just make no sense on how she relays or interprets another's actions. I don't get it.