not really a surprise

didn't know this prior but:

AQUARIUS
By all means lets others know what is worrying you or annoying you but don't expect too much sympathy today. Planetary activity in your opposite sign of Leo means that partners and colleagues are far too busy sorting out their own problems to be overly concerned with yours. But don't worry, according to the planets your "problems" are largely illusory anyway.

Apparently the girl I pine over is in my 'opposite sign'...go figure.